Been ages since i have done any writing. No i did not wake up from a coma.just felt i should get back though its been more than a year. Funny day its been
1.discussed a lot about sunil
2. Deleted jho from bb coz i ended up saying something bad to her
3.had to remove video post from ahsan wall
4. Removed vanessa anikea from my friends list
5. Stopped talking to anjani
Went to al ain yesterday. Small little place, I had to visit Mr.Ramon. staying there at the Central district.best part is he is so used to going by bus. Some how he managed to direct us the right way and we followed the sign boards. Later on he met us 'Lulu centre' Cabs are so cheap there. Mum told me why i did not check out and purchase veggies there , because apparently they are fresh and cheap there.i wish could post the photo here..
its time for me to leave this place. has been a good vacation.not much of shopping but more of eating out at resturants. Having sheesha at various outlets.they even have shawarma and fellafil here but nothing like dubai.i cant post pictures here so they are on facebook.Wednesday evenining im back in dubai. i needed this break. next stop egypt or hong kong.
woke up at a reasonable time. we went for a movie at 230om. had a burger for lunch.dinner plans are yet to be formulated .. the action as extreme and pure gore.anorld and bruce sucked in the movie.although they played a cameo role.
i guess i deduced that i am no good at ignoring people...this is with regard to friends
the other day i was thinking about work. it would seem that i have changed in the few years that have passed.. the changes in worked environment have been minor..
This is the month dedicated to football and all its lovers. 32 teams playing in south africa for one cup. I might be able to catch some of the match online. otherwise me best bet is to go to bur juman. had a good time at bur juman and city centre with the team (Sam, Pia n Rhea)
Back to the same old 3 days on 3days off. i want to meet you susan and don.i been alright. brother had no luck trying to find a job here so he has gone to pune. Life is going on. Easter tommorow. im tired of load/balance/credit sellers and copy watch guys always asking you to check their collection. yah i no its dubai and they are trying to make a living and all
What is Principle?
90 % of life is decided by how you react
What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.
We have no control over this 10%.
The other 90 % is different.
You determine the other 90%
How? By our reaction.
You cannot control a red light.
However, you can control your reaction.
Do not let people fool you.
You can control how you react
You are having a breakfast with your family.
Your daughter knocks up over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt.
You have no control over what had just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears
After scolding her, you turn to your wife and you criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows.
You storm upstairs and change your shirt.
Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school she misses the bus,
Your spouse must leave immediately for work
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school
Because you are late you drive 40 miles per hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone
After a 15 minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at the school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye
After arriving at the office 20 mins late,
You realize you forgot your briefcase
Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse.
You look forward to coming home
When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your wife and daughter
Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day?
a.) Did the coffee cause it?
b.) Did your daughter cause it to?
c.) Did the policeman cause it?
d.) Did you cause it?
The answer is “D”
You had no control over what happened with the coffee
How you reacted in those 5 secs is what caused your bad day
Here is what could’ve and should’ve been done
Coffee splash over you
Your daughter is about to cry
You gently say :”its ok honey you just need to be more careful next time”
Grabbing a towel you go upstairs and change your shirt.
You grab your briefcase, and you come back down in time to look through
The window and see your child getting on the bus and waves. You arrive 5 mins early and cheerfully greet the staff.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios
Both started the same
Both ended different
Because of how you reacted
You really have no control over 10% of what happens in your life
The other 90% was determined by your reaction
Now you know 90/10 Principle apply it and you will be amazed at the results.
You will lose nothing if you try it
The 90/10 principle is incredible
Very few know and apply this principle
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and headaches
We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle
It only takes will power to give ourselves permission to make the experience
Everything we do, give, say or even think, its like a boomerang.
It will come back to us
If we want to receive, we need to learn how to give first
Maybe we will end with our hands empty, but our hearts will be filled with love
And those who love life
Have that feeling marked in their hearts
hope we have decent outing at the end of the month..
so many ppl have gone in and out of me life in the past 5 or so years ..
missing going to the movies have not done that in a while .. the last thing i saw was sherlock holmes
Finally they decided to change our shift pattern after making us suffer for six month. pheeew ! readng this now. understood some bits of it www.reverseshot.com/article/dark_knight